As the parents of three children with autism we wrote the how-to book we kept looking for but could never find. The first thing you need to know about us is that we’re just like you. Before this started we had no idea what the functions of behavior were. Like you we read all the books. None of the books answered the burning questions that kept us up at night. Learn from our mistakes and our triumphs. Now repeat after us: it is not my fault that my child has autism. Good. Now Let’s get to work. Welcome to our site.
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Does Your End Game Match Your Actions?

May 16, 2013 | No Comments
Does Your End Game Match Your Actions?

The thought of what our children will do when they grow up has been keeping us up at night. Everything started after Kennedy’s IEP when we suddenly realized she’s going to middle school next year. At first, we said, “no way, she’s not ready.” Slowly, we came to the decision to send her. But the ...

reviews by Kennedy

May 14, 2013 | No Comments
reviews by Kennedy

Check out Kennedy’s latest review. http://pinterest.com/pin/76842737364731720 Angry Birds Toons is my favorite show. I like Red, Chuck, Bomb, Matilda, The Blues, Terrence, The Eggs, and those Bad Pigs. They are lots of fun but Red is my favorite. The Pigs try to steal the eggs and the birds attack them. Every adventure ends well. You ...

Three kids with autism – Kennedy, Alex and Bella – skate at the 2013 ISI Open competition in Anaheim

Apr 29, 2013 | No Comments
Three kids with autism – Kennedy, Alex and Bella – skate at the 2013 ISI Open competition in Anaheim

As parents we need to help our kids.  When Kennedy, Alex and Bella were diagnosed they all had different stimming behavior.  One they had in common was spinning.  We tried to get them to stop and that didn’t work so we tried to find a way to make it useful.  How can spinning be useful?  ...

Melissa & Andy Areffi talk with Autism Radio – Hope Saves the Day

Apr 19, 2013 | No Comments
Melissa & Andy Areffi talk with Autism Radio – Hope Saves the Day

Autism Radio – Hope Saves the Day™ – Show # 161  Interview with Melissa Martinez Areffi and Andrew Areffi authors of the new book “Navigating Autism: The Essential How To By Parents For Parent http://www.autismradio.org/podcasts/2013/4/14/show-161-interview-with-melissa-martinez-areffi-and-andrew-a.html Your browser does not support the audio element. Podcast Powered By Podbean …

Check out our latest interview on In Style KASA Fox 2

Apr 11, 2013 | No Comments
Check out our latest interview on In Style KASA Fox 2

Melissa & Andy Areffi sit down and talk about Navigating Autism with Nikki & Matt on In Style.

Pawn Stars: Taking a Stroll Though history

Apr 5, 2013 | No Comments
Pawn Stars: Taking a Stroll Though history

Here’s our latest article on Modern Mom By Melissa and Andrew Ar… on April 3, 2013 http://www.modernmom.com/blogs/melissa-and-andrew-areffi/pawn-stars-taking-a-stroll-though-history   Below are all the pics from the visit.